How to fix a conflict.

 

 

I just realize that the best way to fix any relationship is by writing a letter, it has to be done in a loving way, even if you want to lash out at whoever you are having a problem with. The best way to solve it is to write a letter and apologize, even if you think there's no need to apologize, invent or make up a reason. An apology is needed even if you think you've been wronged. Maybe explain what you need or what you are lacking from that person, whatever is that you think that person could or should do to fix it, or to help fixing it. Then find of make up a reason to say thank you to that person. Dig deep inside and find it in your heart to say thank you, write the letter, wait at least twelve hours. Twenty four hours is even better. Then report back to me and I'll tell you what your next step is. No cheating, you have to write the letter first and make the effort of finding the following points: 

 

*Done in a loving kind, compassionate way.

*Apologize even if you think you are not at fault.

*What is it that you need or you wish that person would do different.

*Find a way or invent a reason to say thank you.